We do not tolerate oppressive attitudes and language. Rule 2: No oppressive attitudes and language.
We do not insult, antagonize, interrogate, invalidate, or criticize the original poster (OP), even when not directly addressing OP. If you encounter someone breaking this rule, disengage and report them. We'll listen, and if you want, we'll talk. Whether it's long-standing baggage, happy thoughts, or recent trauma, posting it here may provide some relief. A mutually supportive community where deeply emotional things you can't tell people you know can be told.